STEPS TO STOP COMPLAINING
Complaining
can be managed. Don’t act like the controllers and toxics and expect to win
awards. Learn how to stop complaining or reduce the rate.
1. Recognize Your Identity. Firstly
admit that you are complaining. Any amount can soon turn excessive; finally
ending in chronic complaining. And you may need help, or personal commitment to
get over it. Ask from friends and people around you and begin to work on yourself from there. Be persistent because it will take a while.
2. Detachment. Decide
to let go of unnecessary negative memories, grudges and resentments. In fact
once you're committed you will notice that most issues are trivial. You give
meaning to your reality based on your own interpretation of it. How grave is
the situation that is disturbing you? Detach yourself now.
3. Draw inspiration. Take
a closer look at renowned leaders that faced some extreme situations in their
lifetimes: Jesus Christ, Alexander the Great, Christopher Columbus, Thomas Edison, Abraham Lincoln, Wright
Brothers, Walt Disney, Helen Keller, Winston Churchill, Mahatma Gandhi, J. F. Kennedy, Bill Gates, Steve Jobs,
Barrack Obama, Nelson Mandela and many more in their own chosen fields of
pursuit. But, did they crumble under their challenges and complains? Not at
all.
4. Always express your happiness. When
you are happy, you enter a productive zone; mentally, physically, socially,
financially and spiritually. Every happy individual has the capacity to luminescence,
progress and succeed. Learn to find ways of focusing on the best that has
happened in your past, and expect the best rather than complaining.
5. Commit Yourself to
Positivity. Every
person is a beacon of strong vibrations; whether they are aware of it or not.
Only their state of mind, and feelings, decide if they are emitting positive or
negative frequencies. These are not fancy theories, but scientifically
documented facts. So we are free to decide which way our feelings will tilt, in
the larger context of our personal reality. Remember, your thoughts become things. Choose to expect the best, give the benefit of doubt, be prompt to
pardon, be optimistic and focus on the best.
Also read: Stop Complaining, Believe in Yourself, Stay Motivated, Be Creative, Use Your Mind and The Patterns that Yield
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